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Our Tips for Online Dating |
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- Be beautiful.
Upload a quality photograph of yourself.
It's surprising how much of a difference it makes.
Having a photograph is very important.
Having a photograph gets 7 times more responses from members.
- Be proactive. Don't
be afraid to make the first move. Someone has to do it.
Don't just wait for people to contact you, many Users
are shy and may need a little encouragement.
- Be polite. If people
do contact you please have the decency to reply.
Even if they are not your type. It takes minutes to
respond and saves days of wondering for the recipient.
- Be honest. If you are 30
years old and weigh 20 stones, don't say you are 20 years
old weighing 8 stones. It sounds so simple. Honesty is
the best policy. Be proud of who you are, there's a
whole ocean full of fish out there and someone right
for the real you. Objectively analyse your profile
description. Make the most of yourself. Try to look at
your description as if you were another User.
Would you want to date you?
- Be romantic. If you
receive a message from a User don't reply saying
you just want to get jiggy. Take time to get to know the person. Build
up a rapport with them to make sure you are after the
same things.
- Be confident. When you
respond to a message try to be calm and considered. Talk
about their hobbies and pastimes. Show you are specifically
interested in them and have read their profile. Be exciting,
be interesting, be yourself!
- Be selective. Think about
how many people you meet when you are out in your day to
day life that you are attracted to, and how many you actually try
to talk to. Do not overload hundreds of Users with
copy-cut-and-paste messages. Choose the one(s) which appeal
to you most. There is no time limit. No hurry. It's important
to select the right match.
- Be committed. If at first you
don't succeed, don't give up. Although we try to make it as easy
as possible, no one said it would be a piece of cake.
Analyse your approach, do you need to alter your messages?
What about the way your profile reads? Be prepared to change
these things and have another go.
- Be happy. The whole
purpose of Surf2Singles is to help you meet
people and hopefully make you happy. You make your
own luck here, so fingers crossed from all of us at
Surf2Singles.
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